10 questions you ought to ask to yourself in preparation for self-improvement
Be all you can be, but it's not always in the Army. I often see myself as somewhat content with my life the way things are, but in fact it's hard to consider anything when there are real issues to be discussed.
Still I aspire for something deeper and more meaningful.
So we're all pelted with problems. Honestly it shouldn't even bother or maybe hinder us to become all we need to be. Aspirations as kids should still live within us, even though it might be short-lived or as long as we could hold on to the dream. They say you cannot teach an old dog new tricks… or can they?
1. What do I actually want?
The question of the ages. So many things you want to do with your life and so little time to even go about during the day.
Finding something that you simply are good at can help that tiny step towards improvement.
Diligence is the key to understand that it's worthwhile .
2. Should I actually change?
Today's generation has taken another level of redefining 'self', or at least that's what the kids are saying. Having an army of teenage nieces and nephews has taught me that there are far worse things that they could have had than acne or maybe even promiscuity. So how does that fit into your lifestyle?
3. What is the silver lining in all of this?
With everything happening around us there seems to be no room for even considering that light at the end of the tunnel. we will still see it as something positive without undergoing so much scrutiny. And if it is a train at the end of the tunnel, take it for a ride and see what makes the planet go round!
4. Am I comfortable with what I'm doing?
There's always the straightforward way and therefore the right way when it involves deciding what goes with which shoes, or purse, shirt and whatnot. It doesn't take a genius to ascertain yourself as someone unique, alternatively we'll all be equally the same in everything we do. Variety brings in very interesting and exciting inquiries to be experimented with.
5. Have I done enough for myself?
Have you, or is there something more you would like to do? Discontentment in every aspect is often dangerous in large doses, but in small amounts you will be ready to see and do stuff you'll never imagine doing.
6. Am I happy with where I'm today?
It's an unfair question so let it be an answer! you're keen on being an honest and loving mom or dad to your kids, then take it up a notch! Your kids will love you forever!
7. Am I appealing to someone else?
So maybe I don't have an answer to that, but that doesn't mean I can't try it, though. Whether you shape-up, change the way you wear your clothes or hair, or even your attitude towards people, you should always remember it will always be for your own benefit.
8. How much could I have?
I suppose in this case there is no such thing as having things too much or too little, but it's more on how badly you really need it. I'd like to have lots of money, no denying that, but the question is how much are you willing to work for it?
9. What motivates me?
What motivates you? It's a solution you've got to seek out out for yourself. There are numerous things which will make everyone happy, but to settle on one among them, could also be the toughest part.
10. What Really makes you Tick?
You can be just about anything you want to be, but to realize that attaining something that may seem very difficult is already giving up before you even start that journey. Always remember, that self-improvement is not just about the physical or philosophical change you have to undergo, but it's something that you really want.
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